What does Military Matchmaker do?
Military Matchmaker is a flexible one-stop dating experience, a personal and confidential independent matchmaking service within the dating industry, operating in the UK. An alternative to dating apps and agencies. Members pay a one-off joining fee and a small monthly subscription.
Headhunting service is by invitation only, making sure that the service remains personal. Betty’s Book is our network filled with intriguing and motivated singles, who are eager to establish meaningful relationships.
Why choose us?
Military Matchmaker gives you the tools to stack the odds in your favour when launching secure, functioning long term relationships – Unfortunately, there are no guarantees in this business. As we are aware that not every potential partner will be the right fit for you, we carefully curate a service that includes support and constructive feedback. All members are asked for ID to confirm their identity, using an encrypted app and facial recognition. All members are met via video call by one of our agents before being permitted to join, this helps us to create a safer dating experience. Time-saving – who has the time or the energy to sift through hundred’s of profiles? Let us do the hard work for you. The Military Matchmaker listens, respects your boundaries and is open-minded.
We are not restricted to members, we offer a headhunting service, meaning we will only present you with carefully selected matches.
Profiles remain confidential and discreet, only being shared with hand-selected introductions with your prior permission each time. Meaning that no one will accidentally come across your dating profile, this has made us popular with the forces community as well as many other professionals.
Where are we based?
Our head office is based in Leicestershire. However, we cover most of the UK.
We are proud to have received some training and support from X-Forces Enterprise, Military in Business and Carrie is now an ambassador for the East Midlands Region.
Who do we cater for?
Our area of expertise is with Forces, Ex-Forces and Veterans, who are seeking meaningful relationships, that have found themselves somewhat isolated due to their work-life demands; choosing a discreet and confidential dating service.
However, we also cater for; entrepreneurs, small or large business owners, remote workers and time-poor singles who are looking for a flexible dating experience. We are an all-inclusive matchmaking service, that listens to your requirements. We cater for the Single, Divorced and Widowed.
How do we match you?
All matches are individually selected by an experienced Matchmaker. With the help of matchmaking software, there are no algorithms involved and certainly no swiping, we carefully take into consideration your selected criteria to get you the best match possible.
If you specialise in Military matchmaking why do you have non-forces on your books?
Simply because we are an all-inclusive service, we specialise in forces, ex-forces and veterans, however, we do not match based on occupation and feel that to get the best from our service we have to have a solid understanding and are aligned with our member's values.
What does the joining fee cover?
The joining fee covers the cost of registering and setting up your details as available to date on to our secure matchmaking software, as well as verifying your Identity using phone calls, video calling and verification app.
Why doesn’t registering include PROMISED introductions?
If you join an app or a website, you are not guaranteed matches and need to put considerable time and effort into finding a match. These can be time-wasters or even catfish. Sadly, there are no guarantees when it comes to relationships.
In registering for Betty's Book you are letting us know that you are free and available to date, you will be considered as a match for other members.
How can I get Promised introductions?
We do not believe that one size fits all, and work on a supply and demand basis, therefore we offer a full head-hunting service alternatively we price introductions starting at £250 depending on your requirements. (discounts are offered on block introductions) This service does offer guaranteed matches.
How long does an introduction take?
As we are a matchmaking service, this can vary dependant on the specification that you have given us, your matchmaker will discuss this with you.
We do not offer instant gratification, as we need to verify each match, the broader your requirements the faster an introduction will become available.
I am on Betty’s Book but you have contacted me with an introduction will I be charged for this?
No – Betty’s Book is the first place that we will look when we are sourcing introductions, by joining us you have let us know that you are freely available to date, an introduction is a perk of joining! We actively encourage members of Betty's Book to mingle and network with us and other members either in person or virtually.
What is considered as an introduction?
We only put people in front of you that largely match your requirements, supplying you with a profile, including photo, first name and a telephone number of someone that has been through all the same checks as you, assuring absolutely no catfish.
Once you have received a telephone number and made contact, we consider this an introduction.
What is your Code of Conduct?
This will be supplied to you upon joining and must be adhered to.
What happens if I start a relationship?
We ask you to let us know as soon as you start a relationship, however, we will contact you before and after introductions for permission and feedback.
Can I use other dating avenues if I am a member?
Yes absolutely, we even offer a service to write bio's and choose dating photo's, advising you before and after an app match, just keep us updated, our goal is to assist you with your journey, of course, we cannot take any responsibility for your safety or quality of matches outside of Military Matchmaker.
Do you guarantee my safety when meeting matches?
Your safety remains your responsibility, we offer a safer way to date, but we do not and cannot carry out full background checks. We encourage you to meet in a public, well-lit place and always let someone know where you are going, and what time you expect to be back. Please ensure you do your due diligence and only meet if you feel comfortable to do so.
Please make sure you report to us if you have any concerns regarding any of our members.
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